It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.
But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.
And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy.
Hello beautiful people, so to celebrate reaching 2k subscribers I decided to do a giveaway! I’m really excited about everything that I have to give to one of you so here is everything you need to know!
** rules **
~ Reblog as many times as you like just please try not to spam
~ Likes don’t count but are welcomed for reference
~ Must be following me
(I’ll be checking if you follow me if you win, purely because it’s a follower giveaway so it would be nice if you were following me :)
~ No give away blogs please
~ I’ll ship anywhere in the world
~ Must be 18 or have parents permission for me to have your address so I can send it to you!
~ winner will be drawn at random
** what you will win! **
~ 1 pack of Insence, patchouli (directly bought from India)
~ 1 tube of Henna (good stuff as it’s also directly from India)
~ 1 Arwen Evenstar replica necklace!
~ 2 home made flower crowns
~ 1 wooden mushroom pen (this is so cute)
~ ‘This is not a book’ by Keri Smith - it’s the same type of book as ‘wreck this journal’ which I’m sure you’ve all heard of.
PLUS lots of other little goodies I will be throwing in along the way :)
Giveaway ends 5th of May, message me if you have any questions!
Goodluck sweet flowers xxx